To all of you, get out. I too have had 2 relationships with men like this. They treat you like a princess at first and then when you make the commitment they will turn into a different person. Yes it will be good for maybe a week but they will allways find fault in you. You will never make them happy, ever. I have cried myself sick, but know I couldnt live like that anymore. It is not you, it is them. If they are emotionly abusing you they are also verbally abusing you. You do not deserve to be yelled at or put down for anything! It hurts but you will get over it in time and feel good again. Trust me I have been out!!!!!!!